If the wife loves DP, why'd she keep his cock from going in her? Pussy fuck and hand job doesn't count as DP. Please try again and upload the results. Thank you.
I don't think things like that should ever be considered as cheating and be the reason for ruining long time relationship. There are no feelings involved or anything. After a holiday she is just coming back to her loving family and do everyday things for the rest of the year...